"I'm Just Not That Into You": Pornography, Sex Toys & "Pay for Play"!

December 5, 2019

 

 

I often complain about growing up with extreme exposure to pornographic material ion a day and age when it is or was just becoming okay to put in the media. Seeing these things are like seeing a front door or a screen door that isn't glass. In my life I decided that I am not interested. However, I have an underlying condition that makes me nervous that whoever I will be in a relationship with is going to be exposed to someone else via this tool or technology. There is missing intimacy and natural progression of romance, touch and movement. The exposure happens early and earlier. This can put people in danger. Especially adults who still have never engaged in sexual acts or romance or are declined from sensual participation. Some people are attracted to each other, some people are having a biological experience and some people are aware and really want to be touchy freely with each other. A lot of people need to realize that they would not engage in these behaviors or be invited to. They are making up fake relationships and intimacy and wanting support from people who grew up with no visual reference and do not know what is wrong with them. Or they can see they are being declined and not included. Some people also are not paying attention or lack awareness of exchanges of bodily fluids and keeping clean, healthy and things sexy! I probably sound like a kid who knows nothing but this is probably because of the clutter and infiltration of people who are "performing intimacy" with nothing actually sensual or intimate occurring in their lifestyle. I just hope whoever is the love of my life will prefer to see me and give me booty rubs and be "just not that into it" as me. There are people who are just for the first time ever seeing people kiss because of television. There is also a crisis of people being turned on by things they see on television or film and acting out the experience with other people. This is causing people trauma and putting communities in danger. The distortion is very bad and problematic for society. It also often puts people around perverted energy and disturbs them. I am literally on the run instead of sitting beautifully most of the time. People always want to insert intimacy that will not be there and then get mad when they see they will be declined. I'm like "cooties" are everywhere. People really do need help. There is nothing worse than the confusion of someone who is being turned on by another source being unable to communicate that and making someone feel euphoric or in love. Especially when this makes people neglect duties they would otherwise be happy to complete. There also becomes a distortion about what is healthy, natural, sensual and intimate versus what is actually perverted, estranged and nasty. The worse is when people give up the healthy and natural because they have been damaged to the point of no return from exposure to other people's love language or assault. People ca pick up when the problem vibe is in the area because of the symptoms healthy and well people pick up. It can make them appear frantic or chaotic. In addition, people seeing violence can also give them a tactic they want to use on the person who is declining them. It is just a big visual mess and the worse is when they interrupt the natural and romantic one that is actually happening. Whatever is occurring in my life at the moment is from me being feminist and wanting to prove that their are guys who will try to make a women become pregnant to keep them in their life. Television and film as visual aids, that people cannot see some people are using, are just as effective as that power point that got you a promotion. I am moving forward in my life hoping to not be addressed by people with a visual distortion about how I am supposed to respond to them, even if they are attractive. This is a message coming from someone who also was once interested in selling sex toys because it looked like a fun thing to do because I saw it at a bridal shower and from a classmate in graduate school. Allow me to just go back to focusing on the fact that I like public speaking and being entertaining and would know the way to sell a lot of products. This is also me living in a society where they say "don't knock it until you try it". I am closing out that instinctual learning mechanism before I try something I already know is a complete, nah. 

 

 

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