There is this funny thing that happens to me as a person who participates in youth and community work and does a good job at working with diverse groups. The funny thing is when "haters" and ignorant people convince people to attack or become argumentative with me in a way that allows them to experience a painful reality of when the people who go to lead an attack do not actually meet the requirements for my private and personal groups. They also cut themselves off from the pathway for growth and development and can visibly see what they have been dismissed from and all the people who will participate with or without words, purposeful or accidental on every level. No, there is no problem with a prosper who knows how to work with a homeless population or kids without keys running the extreme "yes you need lip gloss at this moment" group. Many people who are put of place make individuals who would die to be involved in particular things overlook at the entry level rules that are the same as "you need to have on shoes". My personal programming does exclusively focus on women and girls but that doesn't mean I am going to be offended by people who want to "diss me" who do not meet the inclusion requirement.