I quite sure that there is something about television and movie watching that makes people think that Tom Cruise and Morris Chestnut are the rich or scary guy. Some people fail to see the scary factor of their principal, school teacher, supervisor, serious NAACP member that knows it is okay to walk down the street, loyal cashier clerk, or the person who works at the corner store. I cannot imagine the number of times I have seen people bypass the seriousness of a person or situation because they see actors in a role and do not actualize the entire scenario, lesson, or where these characters are deriving from in the reality of a life situation. I often grow furious with people who cannot even see when they are starting arguments while they are driving unregistered vehicles and making a fuss about turn signals and drivers who are following the law. It is very annoying to see people who aim to interrupt the day of a law abiding citizen because they cannot differentiate the fact that their issue should be addressed with a state representative and not drivers who are using their turn signal and “the right away”.
There are people I have realized recently that have aimed to go against me. I will equalize these people to those who would play dodgeball on a gym floor and not realize when I am the star athlete at the basketball game for the team they do not qualify to be on. Some people are simply to be ignored because they missed the part of life that allows them to comprehend when they have already been defeated.
Back to life, back to reality. I was reviewing some of what I wrote in this book I was reading (10 Glam Commandments). I am going to share what I wrote in the section called “Thou Shall Love Yourself”.
Name three things you love about yourself:
My sense of humor
A compliment to myself:
“You meet every new challenge with style and grace.”
What do I love about my body?
My nails grow long
My body is sexy to me!
What can I do to strengthen my mind?
Reviewing this activity made me realize that I want to do some work around “self-esteem errors”. I often discuss one of my favorite movies being The Wiz and I also love The Wizard of Oz. Loving these two movies simultaneously provides room for self-esteem errors. I do not deal with racism as if there is not an identical film in “black and white” to be humorous. Where people attacks, leaves me out, or ignore me is where they think or live as if black people cannot vote. No, I would hardly start anything I lead with conversations about xyz people being left out if the room consists of people who ate school lunch and had access to textbooks. Yes Chrisette Michelle performed at the inauguration and I do remember learning about Mariam Anderson in elementary school. This is purposeful. I refrain from discussions about purpose from people who cannot watch the transformations and progression of society. Or people who might realize that maybe voting is illegal if you cannot read and there are people who did not go to “whatever education is” but they are fighting for food. Which includes hard labor they may have done for their grandchildren to get to the school building, only to find out that they will not register and cannot see that they do not need all those clothing items for “the school day”. Many of them attack people who make the proper adjustments for their lives. Yes my grandma would expect me to have on a fancy jumpsuit and purse to step outside. There are people who think people are imagining this. Many young people with access to education and support from their family need to see the entirety of their day or year. What does your family structure look like and what do they actually do. I participated in a McDonalds Gospel fest and my mom drove me to all the required activities including in NY and my outfit was a fancy skirt with sparkles from Lord and Taylor and some sparkly flats that I was in love with. I often wore these sparkly shoes with a matching belt, jeans and white baby doll shirt to school. There are some people who need to solidify better overall life choices and see why certain things are in particular locations for a particular type of work and life. I have also spent a lot of time with people pushing me because they have survived through life living in the wrong answer. They push and push and push and then get upset when they want to return to me and realize that my critical feedback is expensive. It is also costly to request it when I have been in your “free space”, as in things you could have learned from me in joint activities we participated in. This is also a lesson of classroom education. There are some people who need to stop thinking that Sister so and so won’t try to steal your slip for church and notice what a guidance counselor is providing for you. There are somethings people fight for in the wrong direction. Can you imagine structures that showcase if a student does not receive something like an F in a particular class it is because they are sexually active or that they have attempted to start a fight with someone? There can be a major problem with fitting in. Some problems come when there is a person who can solve a major health crisis by telling someone they need a new pen is shunned away. There are people more interested in my ideas, opinions and results than many can imagine. I also chose to focus on PINK where I could have done my own analytics, can we say this might be increasing interest for major funding. I mean the type of funding where moms and dads all over the world go and buy tissue and bring it to their children’s school teachers! Ok, let me insert here about the way television is also making people miss out on the opportunity they are prepared for. There are girls wanting to be super models and video vixens giving up their opportunity to be a crossing guard to get some money for the things they want. They cannot process that the money earned can even get them jeans and tank top to do a “go see”. (As in go see how much that stuff cost in reality lol). I also enjoy my minimal expertise on social media, especially the one that proves that people who choose to focus on whether or not someone is supposed to be online rather than utilizing their knowledge to unfollow or unfriend a person. There are people being diagnosed with major mental illness and disability for not realizing to do that and that the person they are concerned about actually isn’t doing anything problematic. I do wonder why people put on full face make-up as if someone got them a make-up artist for an event. I have a problem with wrong answers but I have major giggles knowing that there are a lot of people who get them cut off from snack and fun trips because they do not realize the people they rely on, rely on heavily someone or something they dismissed. People who do not read also think there is something weird about typing. There is nothing worse than people who have twelve years of education who choose to take on the commentary of people who are amazing, but amazing in the way of someone who never had access to a textbook and an anthropology class. I am also laughing that there are people living with a story about the fact that someone went to call em ugly and they cannot tell that I ignored them. I am very aware that I am attractive, and attractive to who matters. Imagine playing a game that you do not know you are in and you end up "curbside" because everyone else who played ends up deceased. There are somethings in error worth bragging about. There is this awkward thing about being grouped up from childhood that makes people not notice when you really aren't or haven't been speaking to them. My sarcastic remarks "No, we will not be taking in dead hair because of the length in the middle of decisions about nuclear war and if you want your dipsy doodles we will want a full removal of all talking peasants from the premise and we are serious dude."