Okay, so have you ever felt heckled by someone who is visibly participating in something you participate in? Or get annoyed by someone acting as if the best player on the team is the same as the water boy or the bench warmer. I do not mean this in a bad way. I often mention about my real life home girl I met during my experience in Ghana and the pieces of our life that include things that are the equivalent of carrying buckets of water on our heads and how we love it and some people think it is so horrible. Or some people do it on a cultural excursion and make comments that are more than a little incorrect. Then there are people who cannot notice, in this situation how expensive a bucket is, knowing where the water is and most likely having a place to go like a service, date or job. People who over look things at the root. Some people aim to liken sitting home because job searching is hard as doing things from the root. There is also nothing wrong with loving that you never drop the water while walking with it in the bucket on your head. Can you imagine what it is like when people unknowingly remove buckets and walks with friends to the water and strength building from your routine. People who can know see that they live dehydrated and weak-- more than they think. They haven't even accomplished the equivalent of carrying buckets of water on their heads-- like people who watch television all day and do not notice to invite people over for dinner to have a conversation about the news report from this morning. Why do you even have a stove? I am not confused about groups, identity and chaos. A movie of my life would be mad fly and if I featured in someone else's movies I would probably end up mad like Lil Kim. The part where you only get into a fight with this person and you are mad that someone cannot see that, that takes up less than 5 minutes in a life span of 3 decades. Movie lovers who pay their utilities and payments in full and set up plans that match what is going on in their life understand these things-- they wouldn't make incorrect judgement about what is going on-- or take away the story from the main character. I also have this annoying scene where people want to focus on the shape of my foot-- they do not realize that the word does start with a B-- and the word is bone, not bunion or bump. Can I mention that this comes from traveling around with people who have on shoes that are too small and cannot articulate or are told "oh well". There are also people who just buy the next size shoe and squeeze their foot in, or use a measuring stick. I have to sit here with my bone that comes from being near people who walk with their foot squished and are suffocating. My foot gets measured at a shoe store on that silver foot measuring thing. I also made a joke one time to someone about $20 too see what they would say--- and no they cannot get the reward. I do not live like a psychic or in make believe. There is no way to see what someone has been thinking or developing about you until the situation is completely over. This person text me that they are depressed. They never understood that their shoes have always been too small.