There really are dumb people in the world. People who think listening to the instructor who has excellent material and knows how to use it means also copying them if they decide to smoke cigarettes and buy a hoopty. There are also people who have to much exposure to learning about people through literature or posters and do not realize what happens throughout real life. It makes them think that a health guru can't have a story about smoking cigarette and using too much gas. There is someone really proving a point about why they did not want everyone participating in a learning environment. Some people attack me when I cannot comprehend things that are incorrect, because they do it because everyone else is doing it. It is almost like people challenging why so and so has a rule, when the task requires an excellent reader. So instead of focusing on the person's reading skill they focus on the fact that the person lives in poverty, ran out of money or didn't do a good job at a work sight where she was giving support services that she would need to other people. This person may have had a hard time helping people learn to get free food, but if they got an assignment that is for an excellent reader-- the one that will not struggle pronouncing existentialism when a published author would-- that is the thing to focus on. There are people in life that will want to challenge us, even positively and sometimes it is important to provide a conversation, explanation or literally be busy when they want to "roll" up on you doing something that makes them realize what you were talking about in the first place. Do not let people distract you in that way it can derail you from your life journey and things you have earned that other people are not aware of or do not have to be made aware of. Somethings in life we need to treat like getting invited on a date or selected to be the teachers assistant. People may compete, hate or try to sabotage you. If you happen to be the person who got the lesson on resiliency and resolve-- there is a teacher or mentor who will now be watching for that skill and not whether or not you are good at reading the best in a particular situation. I often struggle with not realize that people are "watching me". There are also a generation of people who did not grow up with technology and television who are struggling to understand certain concepts. In my life all the protective structures actually exist. There are people in my life who cannot understand that people are "watching" the way they watch a television set. They stalk in that way also. So they plan to run into me or the person a the mall or a party-- instead of following them around while they are walking or breaking into their house. There are people in your life who have been saving up since grade school to bump into you at a party to do what a stalker, murder and crazy person does. They save up for this interaction the same as someone would save or get a loan for a vacation home. They watch like a screen and that is why even when they get into your space they can't really pull off the interaction they are going for, even when it is friendship. These are protective structures that would need to be adjusted. But some people who this is happening to really need internal assurance that they have been provided with protection and safety features at the maximum level-- and some people who have put them in place do not understand sometimes what is going on. There are people at their expert level noticing that when it is time to "club and party" there is an influx of people who already have a no who have saved up and want entry into spaces where $50 to get in is already in the lifestyle. They want to start fights when it is time to PARTY!