In life sometimes people make horrible decisions that include you. That is not your problem! Learning to be who you are and where your feet are is essential. Even if people keep your name in their mouth all out of context and do things that can embarrass themselves and a lot of people! Stay focused and in forward motion. I wrote something about "the glass ceiling". This being an invisible barrier that is breakable but may be hard to identify or see straight through. My personal concept to focus on in regards to this glass ceiling is "staying power" once you get up and over the glass. This might even mean making your life's process more visible because of where and how it is occurring. You may be a person who who never misses a slam dunk at your local community center, only to one day find yourself above a glass ceiling getting your shot blocked by Lebron James, if you know what I mean. The next level of breaking through a glass excelling in your life might simply require Windex (glass cleaner) to make the situation more clear. Imagine the experience of breaking through a glass ceiling like being in the middle of a war zone and finding a safe space. You most likely would dance without the music if you get my drift.