Learning to Maintain My Style & Grace While Haters Throw Flames and Burn Their Own House Down.
August 9, 2019
I sometimes get ready to defend myself in scenarios where all I really need to do is be quite and put on some lip gloss. As a person who grew up with a few injuries, bumps and bruises the desire to defend myself stems from the irritation that this interaction is happening in the first place. It is almost a challenge to myself to understand why this person or thing thinks to address me this way. The funny part is realizing that this person or thing is probably excelling at their highest level where you are existing due to life's bumps and bruises. I've learned to be still and pay attention to the message. There is always a lesson and healing that I might miss out on if I hadn't learned to just ssshhh and focus on what I am doing.